WHAT'S UP?

 بسم الله الرحمان الرحيم

As Salaamu Alaikum!

I would just like to add that her son's loss of his bowels could be an autonomic response to stress and anxiety.

My recommendation when it come to our children is always sympathy and indulgence.

What is he so upset about?

Children respond remarkably well to diplomacy and Intelligent Conversation.

Also YES.

OVERWHELMINGLY parents refuse children simply because of dictatorial authoritarian POWER TRIPS.

Just because I want you to remember who is the BOSS!

SO THEY DENY THEM FOR NO OTHER REASON.

Which I think is CRUEL AND VERY UNUSUAL behaviour for a caregiver.

As Muslims, we are taught that ALLAH - OUR CAREGIVER - only answers us in three ways.

1. Yes

2. Later

3. This is even better

Indulge your children. Tell them yes to EVERYTHING. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Watch how good it makes YOU feel!🥰🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷💪🏿🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👑

If you ever have the Opportunity To Tell them: "Here is the reason you shouldn't have/do that...." it becomes an educational lesson!!!! 😀🥰☺️

So my recommendation would be to figure out why he is tantrumming. 

My children and I would witness other children tantrumming in public and a look would pass between us - an unspoken agreement that his/her behaviour was very unacceptable, uncouth, unbecoming and unrefined. 

My children were embarrassed for the family.

Clearly the problem is in the parenting.

I once had a BOSS who commented that children are just little people.

They have the same needs, wants and desires as any other human being. Respect that and don't minimize these natural human tendencies just because you have to look down to see them. You should treat them BETTER because of that! 

Treat them with respect, intelligence, compassion and obsequious regard for their feelings and opinions. ALWAYS CONSULT THEM WHEN MAKING DECISIONS.

I USED TO ABHOR WHEN MY "PAIRENT" would order meals for me with absolutely no consultation!

If you can't afford it WHY BRING ME HERE? GO SOMEWHERE YOU CAN AFFORD. OR stay at home which is really better for women and children. Husband/Father should do ALL OF THE IN-STORE SHOPPING.

TOGETHER YOUR HOME IS PARADISE. DON'T RUIN IT BY LEAVING AND POSSIBLY EXPOSING YOURSELF OR CHILDREN TO POISON WHICH YOU OR THEY WILL THEN POLLUTE YOUR PARADISE!!!

STAY HOME!

ALLAHU AKBAR.

In conclusion, If you treat your children as intelligent human beings, just small, intelligent human beings, they will show and prove to be nothing less.

STAY UP!!! 🥰🥰🥰✍🏿✍🏿✍🏿🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷💯💯💯💪🏿🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👑☝🏿